So I began the telling of my paradigm shift in the last blog. This one promises to go into further detail describing the major events occurring last year during Tribal Fire 2010.
This event was my first official conference to attend in full, and I was beyond excited to learn and observe, for the most part. The high began during the first classes on Friday; one was a basic course on single-tail handling taught by Travis. I had only seen one class on this subject before this point, taught by Mason, and I knew that I had an interest and slight fascination with the wielding of this tool. It was nice to see a different approach to the subject, and I noted the different styles of teaching while at the same time settling into the cozy family-reunion-esque (if you actually like your family) bubble of ambience that Tribal Fire provides. Mike and I then attended a class on relationship dynamics that Mason and Princess Heather taught. Watching them co-teach was most enjoyable, as they played off of each other very well and had the class engaged and amused from the word “go.”
For the party that evening, Mike and I planned on doing our usual rope work, possibly including a suspension. By “usual,” I mean we brought rope and each other – willing and ready to pull out the rope, get up close and personal, and see where our moods took us. We played around a little bit, but it was a fairly quiet evening with lower attendance than we had anticipated, and we ended up talking with a few people before being irrevocably drawn into watching part of a scene that would change us both for good. Ultra Dom and Michael (we didn’t know who they were at the time) had begun to play in a quieter room across the hall. The sound of screeching monkeys drew us to the doorway only to reveal a laughing Karen, flogging Michael with a stuffed monkey flogger. This was not your typical “flog, flog, moan” scene, and we were hooked! They were having fun, and even included some of those standing around and observing as Karen and friends pushed (and punched and kicked) Michael around the room like a human pinball. This was far from quiet, far from somber, and most definitely far from boring.
The next day we attended more classes, including one on service taught by Michael, one on general rope by Lamalani, and one on fire play by Victoria Windsor (I can’t quite remember the order or days/times of all.) But the second major turning point occurred during the Saturday night play party. Mike was talking to Mason during a smoke break and they somehow got started discussing water-boarding. As Mike strongly believes in not doing anything to someone (including and especially me) that he hasn’t experienced himself, he expressed his interest in trying this, from the perspective of the victim. Just as Mike is relaying this desire to Mason, WhipMaster Bob walks up, and, before much more is said, I end up following these three men back into the bowels of hel…I mean the dark, dirty, deserted back kitchen area. Let me set the stage a bit more for you:
Two VERY large scary men (one of whom I don’t even know and the other I just know derives great pleasure from inflicting pain)…
Iron gate door (that, most appropriately, squeaks and squeals upon opening just like you see and hear in the horror movies usually involving prisons and torture) leading to a dark room, lit by a few flickering bulbs, concrete floors, concrete brick walls, dirty floors and rusty metal surfaces everywhere…
The sounds of other people and activities fading away to an eerie silence in which I can only hear the heavy trod of boots and the rushing of blood pounding to the frantic beat of my heart in my ears…the slow, echoing drip of a faucet into a metal sink…
The smell of dirt and mildew…and the unmistakable scent of men – the large, sweaty, predatory smell that fills your nostrils and reaches into the primal response center of your brain…
Mind you, I am in a corset and 8 inch platform boots with spiked heels, which, in addition to the growing mental anguish, has me considerably off balance, and in no position to run or even quietly and quickly slip away from this developing scenario, should that become a necessary option. I then watch (from my spot pressed flat against the concrete-blocked wall, as far away from the action as possible, while still being able to view the proceedings) as these two men briefly explain what will happen and instruct Mike to lie down upon the floor. One of them wets a washcloth in the sink and then places it into Mike’s mouth. I realize that I am holding my own breath, and force myself to exhale and then inhale, as quietly as possible, so as not to draw attention. Goosebumps break out over my whole body, not due to the cold wall I am trying to bore into, but from my own heightened awareness and observance. This was quickly becoming the most terrifying scene that I have never been a part of.
A washcloth is then placed over Mike, and this shroud-like tableau does nothing to quell my rising hysteria, as the light continues to dimly flicker overhead, in a mocking tribute to the black and white interrogation movie scenes. For an impromptu set-up, this could not have been more brilliant in design if months had been spent arranging every detail. I now know what the rabbit feels like in the Discovery channel documentary when the wolves gather. I remember watching that type of program (along with horror movies) and thinking, “RUN! You dumb@$&! Run, while you still can!” I remember thinking how stupid the little bunny looked, frozen in fear, eyes stretched open to their limit, from the moment of first awareness that its own day of demise had arrived. My instinct was screaming repeatedly “GO! Go now!” but I could not tear my eyes away from the events unfolding just steps in front of me.
As you can tell, I had already entered “flight or fight” mode, yet was unable to do either. Perhaps a total of 2 minutes had passed since we left the courtyard, yet, each second was drawn out longer than an hour in my head, adding its own sweet stamp of terror to the adrenaline coursing through my veins and awakening every cell in my body.
The ice bucket full of water was tipped and lowered towards Mike’s face, the orchestrator of torture squatted like a great predatory cat over his chest, seemingly ready to stand or leap up within half a heartbeat should he so choose, and in my own frightened mind, I knew it would require less than a breath for the distance between us to close. Yet I could not even look away, helplessly frozen to the wall as I was.
The water descended, deceptively beautiful in its current role of tormentor, soaking the towel before swirling around and running off into the drain. As Mike’s hands balled up into fists and struggled not to “tap-out,” I wanted to both run forward and help him…or maybe just run forward and follow the water down the only escape, disappearing into the darkness below.
And then it was over. Mike sat up, took a moment to compose himself, shook the extended hand of the man controlling the experience, and they introduced themselves to each other.
This was my first taste of the thrill of terror. But my education on fear play would continue throughout the evening. And I will continue the tale in the next blog…
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